An urgent and deeply affecting account of America’s failure to provide meaningful support to its chronically ill and disabled citizens and our resulting reliance on the unpaid caregiving labor of spouses and intimate partners.
When twenty-seven-year-old Laura Mauldin moved to New York for graduate school, she fell headlong into love. But just months into the relationship, her partner’s leukemia returned—and in a country without adequate systems for long-term care, Laura found herself quietly and devastatingly transformed from romantic partner to unpaid, full-time caregiver, fighting to keep the woman she loved alive in a system designed to let them both fall through the cracks.
Now a sociologist and professor of disability studies, Dr. Mauldin turns her private pain into a searing public investigation. To better understand her own experience, she speaks with couples across the country navigating the brutal, lonely fallout of chronic illness and disability. These are heartbreaking stories of love under strain — relationships full of extraordinary intimacy and resilience, but pushed to the edge by an ableist society that would rather look away from its most vulnerable citizens. At the heart of this investigation is a profound series of questions: What if love isn’t enough? What if our most cherished romantic ideals—commitment, sacrifice, “in sickness and in health” — have been weaponized to excuse the state from its responsibilities? And what happens to love when we ask it to do the work of an entire broken system?
Urgent, unflinching, and full of grace, In Sickness and In Health is a rallying cry for a radical reimagining of care—not as an individual act of devotion, but as a collective responsibility. In connecting the care crisis to the politics of love and intimacy, Mauldin reframes the conversation, urging us to build a world where no one is left to do the work of love alone.
Laura Mauldin is an Associate Professor in the Department of Social and Critical Inquiry at the University of Connecticut. In 2024, she was named a New America Fellow, and her writing has appeared in the Los Angeles Review of Books, The Baffler, and The American Prospect, among other outlets. Laura is a nationally certified sign language interpreter and maintains the website Disability at Home, which highlights the ingenuity of disabled people and caregivers sharing advice on how to make homes accessible. She lives with her partner and child in Brooklyn, New York. In Sickness and in Health is her first book.
Mauldin will be in conversation with Laurel Wittman, who joined Well Spouse Association as a member in 2014 and joined its Board in 2020, with an interest in reaching younger well spouses like herself. She is the recent past Board President/Co-President (2021 to September 2025), and will serve for the next two years as a director and a member of its Program and Outreach Committees. She also co-facilitates its popular and growing Younger Well Spouse support group. Laurel and her husband Eduardo have been married for more than 20 years. Eddie was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 1998 while he was his early 20’s, and the course of his disease has been aggressive—he has needed 24-hour care for more than 15 years. He currently is cared for at home with Laurel but he also spent two years in an assisted living facility, so Laurel has experience with a range of caregiving situations.
This event is free, with first-come first-served seating.